Because I am on a flexible work arrangement at work, when I worked mad, crazy hours during busy season, I was able to choose two weeks to take off later in the year without taking official vacation days.
Because Kullervo was graduating in May, I chose the first two weeks in June, thinking that we would have some time together as a family, that I would have nice time in the early summer with the kids to play outside all day, every day before the brutality of summertime hit. This worked conveniently around the schedule of my current client at work, and it was going to be perfect.
Then Kullervo’s summer annual training with the National Guard changed its dates, so the entire second week that I am off from work, he is gone.
Then we realized the awfulness of bar exam studying, and how it makes law school look like half-day kindergarten.
Still, I have these two weeks to play outside with the kids, “chalking” (as Oliver calls it), taking nature walks, swimming in the pool, basking in the sun (with tons of sunscreen, of course).
It rained for the ENTIRE first week that I was off. All of this past week has been rain. Every day. All day. If it’s not raining, it’s pouring. If it’s not pouring, it’s drizzling. If it’s not drizzling, there’s lightning. If there’s none of the above, it’s nighttime and nobody realizes it. And the forecast calls for nothing but rain for the next 10 days.
On top of that, Oliver developed what may be his worst diaper rash ever. It was so bad that changing his diaper either took two people, or took one person holding him down using acrobatic-style leg calisthenics while he screamed bloody murder, “Don’t hurt me! Don’t hurt my bum!” and I was certain that someone was going to report us to child services. The diaper rash turned out to possibly be a blessing in disguise, because it finally convinced Oliver to attempt to use his potty. And if he’s naked, he’ll use it without accident. If he’s wearing anything, he’ll just let loose. (I figure it’s a step in the right direction, right?)
And, because there has to be an ‘and’ here, Hazel appears to be teething, and hasn’t slept for more than about 30 minutes at a stretch at night for at least three nights in a row, which, of course, means that Kullervo and I haven’t slept for more than about 30 minutes at a stretch, and because the first night Kullervo didn’t realize, my boobs are so sore from nursing her every 30 minutes all night long that I remembered why I am fine to wait awhile before having another new baby, because the first few weeks of nursing are a horrible time.
But being inside with two kids all day makes them whiny. And yell-y. And bored. They’re so bored they don’t want to watch TV. They’re so bored that at the suggestion of a movie, Oliver says, “Um, how about we do something else, okay?”
So, that was last week. Today, because God realized that I was really, really, really, really, really, really going to need it, it did not rain. We dropped Kullervo off at Army this morning and headed for the zoo. We went to the zoo, threw some tantrums, saw four animals (a free zoo makes going with toddlers much more enjoyable, because who cares if you only see four animals and your kids are much more concerned with the HUGE ant they saw walking by the window when they were looking at the bear sloth?), had an argument, chased some birds, and then came home for lunch. After naptime, we went and tried out a couple of playgrounds we hadn’t been to in awhile (verdict: the first one was ghetto and I worried that we would be eaten by zombie drug addicts or something, and the second one was great with a lot of kids and parents who didn’t appear to judge me as I tried to keep both of my children from dying while perched on high playground surfaces and who lended a hand when it appeared that both were trying to dive off of opposite ends at the same time), and then came home right at dinnertime.
But, because we had to say goodbye to Kullervo for two weeks today, I have been an emotional wrecking ball today and desperately worked to not show the kids so they didn’t get freaked out. I’ve been tired–I napped right along with the kids today, and it was AMAZING!–and on the verge of tears all day.
So, now I have rambled on and on and on and should probably re-read this before I post it because probably huge sections of it aren’t even going to make sense, but whatever.